Building Your Sense of Humor and Communication Skills – Self-Confidence and Positivism
You don’t necessarily need to be able to tell nice jokes if you want to be funny. As a matter of fact, you humor will be better evaluated if you simply make funny observations than if you keep telling jokes to everyone. Perhaps you don’t have any talent on being funny. You feel ashamed; you don’t know what to say or how to say it so that it will really make everyone laugh.
If you are insecure and shy you are too afraid of everyone’s disapproval. You tend to believe that instead of laughing at your words people will make fun of you. This mindset is negative, and you have to get rid of it if you want to be successful in your relationships.
You have to build your sense of humor and communication skills. This way, you’ll feel confident everywhere and comfortable with everyone. You can start building your sense of humor by reading jokes and funny stories, so that you may get into the mood. The jokes will help you have a humorous disposition.
You don’t need to learn them by heart and start telling them whenever you have the chance. Just keep a soft humorous tone in your words, using only a part of a joke in a sentence; or make funny comments about something in an ironic style. This new talent will give you universal courage and self-confidence in any situation and develop your communication skills. It will help you find what to say to begin a conversation, or how to answer someone’s question in a smart way. There are many things you can do to develop your communication skills and always show confident behavior. You have to look for this information and learn what you need to do. I’m giving you some clues, but there are a billion other possibilities for you.
Your great sense of humor in combination with your capacity to easily enter in contact with everyone will transform you into a special person.
The more positive you become the easier it will become to approach people. Your positive attitude will have a magnetic effect in your social environment, attracting many people. You’ll be a very interesting person to be with!
You can continue building your great sense of humor by taming your tongue. You should never open your mouth to say something if it is not interesting or funny. This means that you’ll stop saying silly things that are really not funny. You must also stop saying whatever comes to the top of your head just so that you have something to say. Better to say nothing at all then to say something that will annoy your audience.
Sometimes you feel that the situation demands an answer from you and you cannot simply stay silent. However, don’t say a word before thinking it through.
Start being very selective with the words you use and their meaning. This is how you’ll be able to filter what is silly or irrelevant from your sentences and say only what is smart and funny.
With time and practice, you’ll become an expert!